Bookmarked The respect of personhood vs the respect of authority (kottke.org)
Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority” and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person” and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

I went onto Facebook for the barest of moments – I swear it was less than 5 minutes – and I found myself getting angry again.
I swear, that algorithm’s sole purpose is to dredge up all the crap on the internet to keep you “engaged”.